Explore Resistance:
Resistance are sometimes caused by unresolved issues in the relationship, or control, or humiliate the other, or trying to fix blame. When conflicts can not be solved a mediator is sometimes required. A mediator is an unbiased third-party individual who can assist you and your opponent in communicating your ideas and feelings to each other. Mediators are used to help solve the problems so they do not occur again. Mediators can be used in workplaces, community disputes, and divorces. We use them because they are unbias so they help each party in the dispute communicate what they want. They are usually cheaper than an attorney. I believe in education the mediator is sometimes the principal when dealing with a teacher and an angry parent. In order to reach closure you must be willing to recognized your own role in the conflict, recognized your opponent as a human being, and you need to forgive your opponent and yourself.
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